Reposted from the Argus Leader
Jill Callison, jcallison@argusleader.com 11:18 a.m. CDT June 26, 2015
Within minutes of hearing that the U.S. Supreme Court had ruled
same-sex marriage is legal in all 50 states, a Lutheran pastor sent out a
tweet sympathizing with those who would be dismayed by the announcement.
",
we celebrate while others weep. Justice comes in pieces. We yearn for
more and our hearts are also with those who mourn," wrote the Rev. Megan
Rohrer.
What makes her remarkable is that
Rohrer might have been expected to do nothing but celebrate. After all,
she is the first transgender pastor ordained in the Evangelical
Lutheran Church in America and stuck with her childhood denomination
even when it was against church rules to be ordained. She was raised
Lutheran in South Dakota, where she graduated from Lincoln High School
and Augustana College.
In August 2009, however,
the ELCA agreed to allow congregations to call pastor in "publicly
accountable, lifelong, monogamous same-gender relationships." Rohrer was
officially ordained in 2010. In 2014 her wife and she traveled to
Hawaii and were married.
As a pastor, her first response
to the Supreme Court ruling was excitement "because weddings are fun to
do," said Rohrer, who returned to South Dakota last weekend to officiate
at a cousin's wedding. "I was particularly excited for friends in South
Dakota who have long been waiting to be married."
Then
she thought of the November day in 2008 when the United States elected
Barack Obama as its first black president. That same day, California
voters banned same-sex marriage. There was cheering in the streets for
Obama's victory and tears of sadness for those who lost the chance to
marry.
Rohrer also thought about the funerals that are
taking place in Charleston, S.C., where nine black people were killed by
a single gunman who has expressed racist views.
"A large part of our community is deeply mourning racial injustice at the same time Pride (events) is happening," Rohrer said. "What is victory for one group means the other group feels it lost something."
Her
attitude, Rohrer said, is shaped by growing up in South Dakota, living
in a small community where your best friend might hold polar-opposite
political or social justice issues.
Rohrer
said she happily will return to South Dakota to perform same-sex
unions, although people who don't want to wait could travel to states
where it is legal, including Iowa and California. She doubts that South
Dakota will be able to perform such weddings for some time.
"In
San Francisco they had pre-ordered marriage licenses that say 'spouse
and spouse' not 'husband and wife,' " she said. "I imagine South Dakota
probably didn't pre-order them."
Rohrer
also expects legislation to be proposed that will attempt to chip away
at the Supreme Court ruling and other roadblocks before same-sex
weddings can start in South Dakota.
"We've seen it happen in other states that already passed it," she said. "I think you'll get there. It might take longer."
***Update: South Dakota has revised its marriage-license software
making the wording gender neutral. Pennington County has issued a
marriage license to two women.